Our attractions are really uncontrollable, and sometimes not on the mark with what our brains tell us to avoid. Our attractions run deeper than the things that can be seen on the surface. It's really great when we find ourselves attracted to someone with looks, money, or charisma, but it's not always the case. We cannot think of a single person who would disagree that certain traits are attractive to everyone. We are talking about the kind of attraction that you might be somewhat unaware of, but the type you always end up welcoming into your life. You probably know what you want in a partner, but is it the same as the kind of person you are REALLY attracted to? When we say REALLY attracted to, we don't mean the eye candy that anyone with half a brain would find attractive.
